— The Book

Dare to Love

Falling for a Man with Stage Four Cancer

When Jane spotted a handsome white-haired man with a trimmed goatee at a small outdoor concert, she felt an unexpected spark. On their first date, she learned he was intelligent, charismatic, deeply kind — and living with stage four lung cancer.

Despite this heartbreaking news, every part of her felt: This is him. This is the man for me. Both chose to take a risk. Jane had no idea what his illness would bring, and Patrick didn’t know if she would stay the course.

Tender, honest, and life-affirming, Dare to Love will make you laugh, cry, and perhaps fall in love with Patrick yourself. Most of all, it offers a powerful reminder that love knows no age, no limits, and no guarantees.

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Bonus Epilogue

“In the bonus epilogue, Jane offers encouragement and insight about relationships, facing loss, and finding more joy in life. She hopes you will dare to love, too.”

— A Story of Courage

Two People Who Held Their Hearts Open

Dare to Love is a touching true story of courage, humor, and hope that follows two people who choose vulnerability in the face of an uncertain future.

An Unexpected Spark

It began with a brave question whispered as a concert crowd dispersed: “How will I ever see you again?” Two days later, on their first date, everything changed.

Adventures & Closeness

As Jane and Patrick enjoy adventures, savor their closeness, and travel to Europe, they also work through insecurities, misunderstandings, and misfortunes — which brings them only closer.

Living Boldly

Their journey is a testament to living boldly, having fun, and staying open to love. Jane and Patrick prove that it’s never too late to take a chance on happiness.

— Reader Praise

What Readers Are Saying About Dare to Love

"Jane Myers Drew has written a moving account of finding true love, and her account teaches us how to savor every moment we get to love with all our heart and soul."
John Gottman, PhDAuthor of forty books, including The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work and Fight Right
"If grief is the price we pay for love, Jane Myers Drew's moving account is proof of the miracles that can happen when we open our hearts to possibility. Inspiring reading for anyone hesitant to embrace the risks inherent in romance."
Todd PurdumFormer New York Times White House Correspondent, Author
"When I read 'I had no regrets. I'd gladly do it all again in a minute,' I felt so much hope. I've been holding back from a close relationship for fear of loss — now I want to go forward."
Diane MurrayRegistered Nurse
“Dare to Love is a heartfelt true story of courage, humor, and a journey that leaves a lasting impact. Jane's memoir was a pleasure to read—it made me laugh, cry, and admire her unwavering belief in love, even in the face of certain heartbreak. Well done, Jane!”
Jeff C. WestAward-winning coauthor of Streetwise to Saleswise
"Dare to Love is far from a traditional memoir or tale of loss. It is at once a beautiful love story, a remarkable journey of exuberant living in the face of an uncertain future, and a triumph of spirit."
Kathi LaughmanAuthor, Strategist & Mentor
“Dare to Love was a delight to read, and you had me with each step of the relationship. I think readers will find it a roadmap for their lives adding to the wisdom so needed in our world.”
Karin CrillyPsychotherapist and author of The Blue Satin Nightgown: My French Makeover at Age 78
“I finished Dare to Love today, and I am speechless. I can’t even describe how this book has and will impact me. I know more people need to read this book because it offers so, so much hope... and a wake-up call to cherish life more!”
Jeanette LuceroWife, Mother & Fashion Influencer
"From the moment Jane describes seeing Patrick one fine summer day, I felt I was part of all their adventures, celebrations, and deep, soul-connecting moments together. I couldn’t put this rich, joyful book down and will carry their story in my heart!”
Marilyn PeronaVoice and Language Coach
“I loved reading your book. I reread it a second time. You are a talented writer and the story is powerful. You brought me to tears.”
Vivian ClecakNonprofit Coach
“Thank you for writing Dare to Love for all of us who get the privilege to read it, absorb it, and learn from it. I actually have less fear of death by reading how peacefully Patrick was kept quiet and out of pain until he let go. I LOVED the last chapter, your letter to Patrick. How beautiful!”
Merilee FoxSpiritual Coach
“Dare To Love is a wonderful and poignant love story that flows so beautifully. Many, many people will cherish its stories and insights.”
Nancy ConteRetired Drama Coach
“I read the whole book in one sitting! I couldn’t put it down! I related to Jane and fell in love with Patrick. Through the story, I felt like I knew him. This book made me smile, laugh and cry. It’s a beautiful story and I can’t wait for the world to read it!”
Heidi MossCosmic Clutter Coach
“I loved Dare to Love. When I read your words, ‘I had no regrets. I’d gladly do it all again in a minute,’ I felt so much hope. I’ve been holding back from a close relationship for fear of experiencing loss... and now I want to go forward to find a relationship.”
Diane MurrayRegistered Nurse
“A very endearing book, I couldn’t put it down. I’m reading it for a second time to take notes. Jane is my hero. I was inspired to see how Patrick and Jane gave their all to each other. I had a mixture of smiles and tears all the way through the book.”
Marlyse RuessArtist
“I loved the brave way that Jane shared how she was able to love Patrick knowing his illness would shorten their time together. Her touching story proved to me yet again that giving and receiving love is the highest expression we have of being human on this plane of existence."
Tony LangeContractor
“Dare to Love is an inspiring love story. What I enjoyed most were the moments of shared happiness between Jane and Patrick.”
Andrea DunneAward-Winning High School Teacher
“I was there! I was a witness! Now you can be there in the quintessential love of Jane and Patrick. Dare To Love challenges all of us to love so deeply it defies everything, even our own mortality. Yet it will be eternally etched on the heart.”
Lisa BrowneHypnotherapist

Foreword By John David Mann

Coauthor of the International Bestseller The Go-Giver

“Jane is so brave to share her story, her relationship, and Patrick. This book will make you smile, laugh, and cry — and remind you that it’s never too late to take a chance on love.”

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